

Or, tell your partner what to do to themselves to paint a rousing fantasy. Describe what you are wearing how you’d like to take your partner with you in the shower. “Talking dirty is the guiding light of sexting,” Morgan says.

Also, it’s important what you share is something you’re comfortable For instance, you can send a photo that reveals only your abs or send over some sexually-provocative emojis. It’s best not to flaunt all the way all at once. Build up the sexting to be more interesting. You can start with a cautionary advice, like NSFW (“not safe for work”). Is he or she in a business meeting? It’s important that when you initiate sexting, your partner is in a private place and will not be put on the spot should your message come through. Sex experts, Kait Scalisi, Tyomi Morgan, and Emily Morse (3) offer these tips: Otherwise, he or she might look at your motives as sexual harassment. A good idea is to mix some cute paragraphs with sexting. You would be wise to move slowly and, when you are confident she will enjoy it, surprise her with a sexting message.

Sometimes it is done as a favor in return for something tangible, like a gift or a dinner date. Some people engage in sexting to feel secure. Not all sexting is done for sexual reasons. If you think it feels like it’s going too far/too much/might not land well, don’t send it.
